MI Days of the Week
Serendipity Sunday
A day for appreciating the Serendipitous nature of Motherhood and the wonder of accidentally discovering something fortunate, while looking for/expecting something entirely unrelated.
Mothers Institute Monday
A day for promoting our organization’s message and participating in activities with other Mothers Institute Moms. Plan to utilize popular social networking sites to inform mothers and others across the country of MI’s mission. Involve our friends, families, and members in our local communities with The Mothers Institute efforts. Also, be sure to reserve time in the day to enjoy the company of other Mothers Institute Moms via our Moms Forum here at MI and by participating in our regularly scheduled weekly conversations via our online chats and teleconferences.
Teaching Tuesday
A day for educating ourselves, our children and others on what it means to practice Radical Responsible Mothering.
Weeding Wednesday
A day for weeding out material and/or mental clutter - whether it be weeding the garden or weeding out unproductive thoughts and behaviors that get in the way of living the life we want.
Thrifty Thursday
A day for actively working to reduce our bills/debt and sharing a time/money saving tip with friends and family.
Family Friday
A day for spending significant quality time with our family members … creating cherished moments and memories.
Seeding Saturday
A day for planting seeds as a compliment to Weeding Wednesday -- whether those seeds be to grow food … or food for thought.
The Mothers Institute Promotes and Supports
Radical
Responsible Mothering
What is Radical Responsible Mothering?
Before offering a definition of the term Radical Responsible Mothering, it would be appropriate to first review a sampling of Webster's definitions of the individual words: radical and responsible.
Radical: 1) of, relating to, or proceeding from a root: as of growing from the root of a plant 2) of or relating to the origin: fundamental 3) a: marked by a considerable departure from the usual or traditional: extreme, b: tending to make extreme changes in existing views, habits, conditions, or institutions c: of, relating to, or constituting a political group associated with views, practices, and policies of extreme change d: advocating extreme measures to retain or restore a (political) state of affairs.
Responsible: 1) a: liable to be called on to answer or to be called to account as the primary cause, motive, or agent; b: being the cause or explanation, c: liable to legal review or in case of fault to penalties 2) a: able to answer for one's conduct and obligations: trustworthy b: able to choose for oneself between right and wrong 3) marked by or involving responsibility or accountability
In reviewing these definitions, I find the words to be hearty, encompassing, and flavorful - so much more than today's often limited and skewed interpretation of the two terms. Unfortunately, far too often, the word radical evokes negative connotations when in fact it seems to define motherhood at its core. Claiming Webster's first and second definitions, to be radical means to be at the origin or the root of our children's lives: their conception, birth and development from infancy to maturity.
Claiming the third set of definitions, we see motherhood at its best: ready, willing and able to step outside the norm, to investigate options, to make extreme changes and to take on traditions, institutions and authorities for the sake of our children.
The word responsible traditionally carries with it positive overtones and its definition is perhaps more often understood than that of the word radical. Again, the practice of being responsible is a core principle of motherhood. Webster's definition reminds us that we as mothers are the primary agents of our childrens health and well-being. We are also the cause of and explanation for much of the world around them. Clearly our own choices teach them right from wrong. And how we accept our own responsibility and accountability in the raising of our children will be reflected in them as they grow and mature.
Understanding these two words separately, gives us a better sense of their joint meaning. Radical Responsible Mothering suggests the importance of passing on personal core values, but with a pliable approach. Radical Responsible Mothering encourages mentoring with an open mind. And ultimately, Radical Responsible Mothering is the ever present awareness that there is no greater responsibility or privilege than to raise one’s children with a devotion and dedication that rises above the needs, impositions and mandates of society. Consequently, when the individual child is cared for, raised in love, allowed to flourish and create, both society and the individual are the benefactors!
Jan Stover
Founder and Director
The Mothers Institute
Flowers Are Red by Harry Chapin...a little food for thought
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